Definite Prayer
In my studying lately, I
have been learning about the importance of definite prayer.
Meaning: clearly
stated or decided, not doubtful, explicitly precise.
There
are many examples in the Bible of men and women praying definite
prayers.
And
receiving definite answers.
One of
my favourites is found in the book of Joshua.
Joshua 10:12-14
Then spake Joshua to
the LORD in the day when the LORD delivered up the Amorites before
the children of Israel, and he said in the sight of Israel, Sun,
stand thou still upon Gibeon; and thou, Moon, in the valley of
Ajalon. And the sun stood still, and the moon stayed, until the
people had avenged themselves upon their enemies. Is not this written
in the book of Jasher? So the sun stood still in the midst of heaven,
and hasted not to go down about a whole day. And there was no day
like that before it or after it, that the LORD hearkened unto the
voice of a man: for the LORD fought for Israel.
I
noticed something in these verses. Joshua wasn't vague in his asking
(or demanding, as it's not written as a question). He didn't say to
the Sun, “Just stay up all day will you?” No. He definitely,
clearly, decidedly, told the Sun to stand still upon Gibeon, and the
Moon to stay in the valley of Ajalon. He told them WHERE to stay. He
wasn't at all vague with his request. And God granted it and made it
happen.
Another
example is of Abraham’s servant, when he was sent to find a bride
for Isaac.
Genesis 24:12-14
And he said, O LORD God
of my master Abraham, I pray thee, send me good speed this day, and
shew kindness unto my master Abraham. Behold, I stand here by the
well of water; and the daughters of the men of the city come out to
draw water: And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall
say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she
shall say, Drink, and I
will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou
hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that
thou hast
shewed kindness unto my master.
Genesis 24:18-19
And she said, Drink, my
lord: and she hasted, and let down her pitcher upon her hand, and
gave him drink. And when she had done giving him drink, she said,
I will draw water for thy camels also, until they
have done
drinking.
The
servant asks definitely of God, even down to the exact words, and the
damsel speaks those words and gives him confirmation of God's will.
Now,
we might say that we're not like Joshua or Abraham's servant, and we
don't have God's ear like they did. Well, we should. And we can! If
we are really in the will of God, and we know that it is His perfect
will, then we can be definite in demanding of God and we can expect
to receive it.
Now,
I'm not saying that we should demand things of God in a 'give me'
spirit. Hear me out.
These
men and women in the Bible that obtained definite answers from God,
were walking with God. Their lives were characterised by a life of
faith.
“Definite praying
does not mean that you try to make God come to your viewpoint.
Rather, it means finding just what the Lord wants to give you, and
what He wants you to ask for, and then praying the prayer that the
Holy Spirit lays on you heart.”
John
R.Rice
So,
maybe I'll back up here and explain some things about indefinite
prayer.
Of
course, being indefinite means, not precise, not clear,
vague. The opposite of definite,
funnily enough.
Indefinite
prayer often shows a sinful state of the heart. It is often an
insincere formality. It shows that there is no burden, no urgency, no
heart desire.
Indefinite
prayer proves that we haven’t found the will of God, so we don't
know
exactly what we should pray for.
Romans 8:26-27
Likewise the Spirit
also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for
as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with
groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the hearts
knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh
intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
Here
in Romans, we see that we don't always know what we should pray for.
Sometimes, we hesitate to ask specifically for anything, because we
don't have the faith that anything will happen. Other times it's
because we don't know what the will of the Lord is.
But
the verses tell us that the Spirit will make intercession for us. He
intercedes for us. With groanings which cannot be uttered.
Barnes
puts it like this :"The Spirit greatly aids or
supports us in those deep emotions, those intense feelings, those
inward sighs, which cannot be expressed in language, but which he
enables us to bear, and which are understood by Him that searcheth
the hearts."
So,
where does all this lead us? To this. Indefinite prayer is the result
of not being led of the Holy Spirit. If we have grieved the Holy
Spirit by our sin or have ignored His plans, we have no assurance
that we are in His will and we don't know the mind of God. So, we
can't be definite in our prayers.
“..........since we don't know how to pray as
we ought (because we don't know the mind of God), the Holy Spirit
interprets our prayers according to the intent of our hearts , and
He intercedes for us so that our prayer is made to conform to the
will of God. And we have this assurance . . . that for those who
love the Lord and have committed their lives to the accomplishment
of his purpose on earth, the Lord uses everything that comes into
their lives to bring about the good He has purposed for them”
R.H.
Men
and women of God in the Bible that received definite answers, were
being led of the Spirit. They knew what to pray for and
they expected
from God their desires.
If we
haven't made ourselves familiar with God's plans, through the Word of
God, and found the will of God, through reading and studying and
praying, by the Spirit's leading, we
cannot be definite in our
prayers.
How
often do we pray through our prayer list, almost by rote, letting
name after name slip off our tongue, with almost no thought as to
that person's real condition and how we should be praying for them.
Guilty as charged.
I know
it's easy to go to prayer meeting, listen to heartfelt requests, then
speedily pray through our list and, Amen. We're done. But what about
the Spirit's leading in our prayers. Do we pray for what God wants us
to pray for? It's easy to pray out of a sense of duty or to please
others
or as a matter of habit.
Sometimes,
I think it would be better to cut things out of our list and really
get sincere in praying specifically and definitely for fewer
requests, then to prattle on meaninglessly, with no heart and no
leading of the Spirit.
My
desire is that God would deepen my prayer life. Help it not to be a
shallow, splashing about haphazardly, type of prayer life, but a
deep, focused, meaningful, Spirit led time. Centred on God's perfect
will. It takes time, and quiet and focus. Sometimes, I find I just
need to be still and listen for the Spirit's leading. Sitting still
is hard for me. I find it hard to sit still and focus on anything,
let alone what God wants to say to me. Studying is so much easier as
it means DOING something. Prayer requires a stillness. Eyes closed in
silent prayer. Not moving. Talking with God.
Often
I don't know how to pray for something. I'm unsure how to ask or even
what to ask, but I do know that I can ask God for wisdom and He will
guide me to know how to pray as I ought.
And I
have the confidence that if I am praying according to His will, He
will hear me.
1 John 5:14
And this is the
confidence that we have in him, that,
if we ask any thing
according to his will,
he heareth us:
So, we
shouldn't pray definitely, demanding something be done, unless we
have clear leading that it is the will of God. And to find the will
of God, we have to be in the Word of God.
God
wants us to bring our requests to Him. He longs for us to be specific
in our prayers. We know that God knows our thoughts and He knows our
needs even before we bring them to Him, but He desires us to pray to
Him and cry out to Him in humbleness, and ask great things of Him.
Matthew 7:7
Ask, and it shall be
given you; seek, and ye shall find;
knock, and it shall be
opened unto you:
If we
pray in general, such as, “Bless me, Lord”, how will we know if
He has answered?
We
didn't ask definitely, and specifically to be blessed in a certain
way.
Sometimes,
we really are at a loss as to how to pray for something definitely,
such as praying for someone and not knowing if the issue is a
spiritual one or a physical one. God still hears and answers our
prayers even when we are unsure how to pray. If we are walking with
the Lord and have our hearts in the right place, He will answer and
we will know when He does.
I have
so much to learn on this subject and I've begun to realise that I've
only just skimmed the surface. There is so much more depth to praying
definitely. It is fathomless.
But,
if I wait on the Lord and let the Holy Spirit speak to me, I know
that He will answer and lead me in
how I ought to pray.
"If you can pray a
prayer that is
put there by the Holy Spirit,
then you can be bold
in praying
for a definite answer."